Proverbs 20

1 Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging: and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise.

The word “mocker” here means to scorn or talk arrogantly.  In fact, the Hebrew word is used seventeen times in Proverbs and only one other time is it interpreted as mocking.  The other fifteen times it is translated as scorn.  Wine, if abused, will bring about haughtiness and give a false sense of confidence or arrogance.

“Strong drink” is an intoxicating mixture, which has the sole purpose of numbing.  Pr. 31:6 “Give strong drink unto him that is ready to perish, and wine unto those that be of heavy hearts.  In the day when this was written, modern medicine’s morphine was not available.  When someone was about to die, they would give them strong drink to ease their pain.

As with most things, “miss use” is the key and these two, wine and strong drink will bring down the greatest of men.

2 The fear of a king is as the roaring of a lion: whoso provoketh him to anger sinneth against his own soul.

Lets say you walked up to a lion and the lion was laying there asleep and you took out your pea-shooter and popped him a good one right between the eyes.  You had better be ready to die because that lion is going to rip you to shreds physically.  The same is true with a king.  There is a certain amount of respect we must have for the king's position and authority.   One of the things strikes me is in today's accepted social behaviors, many have no regard for those who are in authority.  We are not talking about slavery here, we are talking about even the most rudimentary circumstances.  Some that come to mind are parents, teachers, and law enforcement.

The fear of the king is likened to the fear of the LORD.  It is a respect and purpose to please in order to preserve yourself.  Look at this, Pr 21:1 The king’s heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whithersoever he will.” Pr 22:11 “He that loveth pureness of heart, for the grace of his lips the king shall be his friend.

3 It is an honour for a man to cease from strife: but every fool will be meddling.

It is always good to be able to end a controversy or dispute, which is what the word “strife” is talking about here.  This is a warning to us that fools live and play in controversies in order to cover their own derision.  Be aware, those who advise you in how wronged you are in any matter, they themselves may be fools.  Choose your counsel wisely.  It is a very serious matter, take it seriously and pray for Godly counsel every day of your life.

4 The sluggard will not plow by reason of the cold; therefore shall he beg in harvest, and have nothing.

The sluggard is a slow moving one often likened to a sloth.  They are slow to react and late to everything but the dinner table and even then they can barely lift their hand to their mouth.  Pr 26:15 “The slothful hideth his hand in his bosom; it grieveth him to bring it again to his mouth.  The point here is basically work as hard as you are able and be diligent with what God has blessed us with.  Be wise about the bounty our hearts desire that He would impart in us a glimpse of heaven to brighten His presence in us. "There is treasure to be desired and oil in the dwelling of the wise; but a foolish man spendeth it up." [Pro 21:20 KJV]

5 Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water; but a man of understanding will draw it out.

Again, be very careful where you get counsel.  The matters we bring before counselors often are very personal and not for the talebearers.  You do not want your personal business publicized.  Another caution is a principle found here in Pr 11:14 Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counselors there is safety. And, Pr 24:6 For by wise counsel thou shalt make thy war: and in the multitude of counselors there is safety.  One having Wisdom is expected to know others having Wisdom.  Not just one, but many.  An action item to put in your schedule today should be to find someone or at least contemplate whom you should have as counselors.

6 Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find?

The word “proclaim” here is interesting in that it means to call out or announce and at the same time the word is from the Hebrew root word meaning to grab and get in the face of someone and recite.  If you walk away from a conversation where you had to proclaim yourself as someone faithful, find yourself a quiet spot and consider your ways.  Our behavior speaks volumes about where we are in our Wisdom but more importantly growing in Wisdom requires change.  If we do not have a convincing walk we need to consider our behavior.  I have to ask myself often what is motivating me to do a certain thing and brother let me tell you, it gets pretty noisy inside when I have to recon with my own foolishness.  I remember something a long time ago when my boys were young, one of them said, “I’m cool.”  His older brother quickly corrected him, “don’t you know…if you have to tell everybody you are cool, then you're not.”

The word “faithful” is also translated as truth, which means a faithful man is trustworthy and deals in truth.  We often get so caught up in our own worlds that we minimize the significance of those around us.  We even justify our needs over theirs by touting to ourselves, “No one else is going to take care of ME like ME.”  We all are different and some of us like to be considered different, the challenge is to be different as the last part of this verse is stating.  It implies there are few truly trustworthy people and they are hard to find. 

7 The just man walketh in his integrity: his children are blessed after him.

A just man has integrity and in today’s society integrity blemishes the satin fabricated on lies and deceitful intentions.  Have you ever noticed how hard some try to bring down anyone who seems to be one of great integrity.  They look under every stone and in every closet.  The funny thing is this, the word integrity here means completeness or fullness and simplicity.

“Ah, the simple life.”  We have all heard that before.  For some reason we seldom consider integrity as simple.  When actually, keeping the web of lies mended is more work than God ever intended.  Freeing ourselves from the torture of remembering what we told this person or that person is true freedom.  Oh, and don’t think your children aren’t watching every move you make.  They will be just like you. Fill your home with Truth so that all that enter may taste its refreshing freedom of vibrancy.

8 A king that sitteth in the throne of judgment scattereth away all evil with his eyes.

Have you ever walked into a room and found someone angry?  What did you want to do?  Stay?  Probably not, especially if that person was a boss or parent or spouse.  You probably wondered what you did or said to make them so mad.  This verse is not really talking about that at all but that if you hate evil your very look at it will keep it far from you.  Evil is a parasite and being a parasite it has to have one of two kinds of host in order to survive and propagate.  First, there is the unsuspecting host who is not aware of the danger lurking in their proximity.  Second, there is the one who thinks the evil will not affect his or her life.  However, if we look at evil with the look it talks about in this verse, the look conveys our insight and conviction our fortitude and above all our weaponry of Wisdom.

9 Who can say, I have made my heart clean, I am pure from my sin?

Your initial thought might be to say, “no man can say he is without sin unless he has been forgiven.” And that is certainly true.  This verse however is referring to the lack of those who can say they have actually attended to their condition in so much as asking forgiveness and fled from their previous nature.  Wisdom holds us accountable to sin or better stated, the deviations from the path Wisdom would have us living.  Our accountability however, is in the sense of knowledge and dedication to changing our path as we grow in Wisdom.  We already know we will always do battle with sin in our lives.  That said, the purity comes with having dealt with the sins and righting our path.

10 Divers weights, and divers measures, both of them are alike abomination to the LORD.

This verse is talking about being underhanded in your dealings.  Weights and measures were used in the past to ensure a fair amount of grain for a price.  There were some that used weights and measures that were wrong and making the deal better for the seller.

Consider this, when we say something to someone, are we really forthright about what we mean.  Do we include language to make things seem differently so someone will take our side?  It’s the same thing as cheating someone out of a measure of wheat and Wisdom teaches that is an abomination to the LORD.

11 Even a child is known by his doings, whether his work be pure, and whether it be right.

I have never met a parent on the face of this earth that thought their child was average.  Their child works so much harder than they did when they were that age and they accomplish more than the combined efforts of every other child within a hundred mile radius.  Thank God for parents!

Now, look back in your past to when you were a youth.  Are you still like that?  If you asked some who were very close to you in that day, say an uncle or neighbor, what would they say?  Did you cut grass and when you cut grass, it was the best-looking yard in the neighborhood because your work was pure?  Or, did you baby-sit, and when you baby-sat, did you leave the house in better shape than when you found it, or was the refrigerator emptied?  (I always envied babysitters for their access to the fruits of their labors.)

Remember verse seven?  Children will act like their parents; they will do things the same way their parents do them. 

12 The hearing ear, and the seeing eye, the LORD hath made even both of them.

Where do we put our ears and what do we allow them to drink?  The same is true for the eyes.  In a medical sense, these two organs are connected directly to the brain.  They are in close proximity to the brain and have been created having very distinct functions.  The ear for instance is not solely responsible for just hearing but balance as well.  The LORD thought balance was so important to us that the mechanism that provides this amazing feature is surrounded by the hardest bone in the entire body and it has its own separate connection to the sensory part of the brain.  The ear is actually connected to the brain by two separate channels, one for balance and one for sound.  The eye is another amazing feature.  Evolutionist have said, many millions of years ago while light was landing on a cell the cell somehow developed the ability to process the light and thus the eye became what it is today.  I guess I would have to ask the question then, why are there not some creatures then that only have one light-processing organ.  Since everything that has an eye has two there would seem to be a distinct design in place for the entire animal kingdom.

Now there is some responsibility with these miraculous organs.  The “hearing ear” for instance is an ear inclined to obedience.  The word “hearing” is also translated as hearkeneth as in Proverbs chapter 1:33 and is translated as obey in 81 other verses.  The point is this, having an ear means there is a responsibility while using it.  Using discretion in what we allow into it and then acting on what is heard.  The same goes for the eye.  We have to be careful in what we allow our eyes to dwell on.

13 Love not sleep, lest thou come to poverty; open thine eyes, and thou shalt be satisfied with bread.

This is not talking to those poor mothers who are up and down all night taking care of their infants.  Their love of sleep is from depravation.  Hint, hint, husbands.  This verse is talking about sleeping half the day away out of laziness.  There is another thing sleep is used for and that is to hide from the trials of the day, this reason for sleeping is the deadliest.  We need to get up and get about our business everyday bright and early.  If you need more sleep than others go to bed earlier so you can get up early.

This word “open” is and interesting word in that it is used 20 times and in all but one refers to the eyes.  Not simply the physical ability to see but rather the ability to envision truth.  In Gen 3:7 "And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they were naked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons."  This was after Adam and Eve had eaten from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.  Their eyes were opened in a spiritual sense.  Wisdom teaches us that with our Spiritual eyes open we will be satisfied with the things necessary for our lives.

14 It is naught, it is naught, saith the buyer: but when he is gone his way, then he boasteth.

Being deceitful in your purchasing is lying.  Being deceitful in your selling is lying as well.  It is safe to say, being deceitful is lying.  This verse and the “It is naught, it is naught” means the buyer was saying devaluating things in order to get a lower price on the merchandise.  Then after his lying and cheating, he boasted about it.  If you are in a trade where your product is negotiated, pay close attention to what is said before you sell.

15 There is gold, and a multitude of rubies: but the lips of knowledge are a precious jewel.

Basically, there are tons of things we put our time into.  Seeking the gold of our contemporaries and the rubies of our flesh.  There are things we pursue with passion and tenacity only to realize the ramp from that road dumps us off right where we started.  Putting ourselves within ear-shot of one with Wisdom would be like finding the fountain of youth.  The word “precious” is also translated “honor” and the Hebrew root means prized and valuable.  This is not a map to hidden treasure but it is the map to new and amazing understanding.

16 Take his garment that is surety for a stranger: and take a pledge of him for a strange woman.

The word “garment” here is interesting in that the Hebrew word is a form of treachery and deceit.  The garment is used as a deposit here but seemingly for a misguided purpose.  The NIV reads this way: “Take the garment of one who puts up security for a stranger; hold it in pledge if he does it for a wayward woman.  “Surety” is a form of security for the purpose of acquiring articles when we don’t have enough money to get them.  It is much like collateral for the purpose of securing a loan.

"A strange woman." There are many men who would say, "they are all strange."  In this case however, it is talking about in the mind of most men is

17 Bread of deceit is sweet to a man; but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel.

The word "Bread" is an interesting word here, it's from the same Hebrew root word "to fight" or "devour" as in the way war was waged in that day and age.  It was the army's way or purpose to devour their adversary.  "Deceit" is just that, deceitfulness.  The bread, or better said, the purpose of deceit is seemingly sweet but when revealed or uncovered as to its purpose will taste like busted up stone (gravel).

18 Every purpose is established by counsel: and with good advice make war.

We have all heard the cliché, “Pick your battles.”  Winning a battle or two and loosing the war is not the best plan.  Getting counsel when planning is prudent.  Setting goals and establishing a direction is crucial to success.  Few of us will ever have to get “good advice” in order to “make war” but figuratively we are in a war every day.  We war against the flesh, we war against evil, and we war against the land if we are a farmer.  The point is swallowing our pride and get advice early.

19 He that goeth about as a talebearer revealeth secrets: therefore meddle not with him that flattereth with his lips.

If you don’t want to be a victim of talebearers then stay away from them.  They are easy to identify because they are often the busiest people we know.  They are so busy keeping up with all the latest gossip and they have to talk to everyone or at least anyone that will share their secrets.  While they doing this, they will often drop little pieces of salt to entice the taste buds of a poor unsuspecting soul.  If someone starts a conversation with “Did you know?”  Run!

20 Whoso curseth his father or his mother, his lamp shall be put out in obscure darkness.

I remember a time when my sons where young, we out in the back yard and a young kid yelled at the top of his lungs full of rage and directed at his father, some of the most obscene remarks I have ever heard.  The boy was only like twelve years old.  I turned and looked my boys in the eyes and said to them, “if you want to live, don’t ever do that!”

21 An inheritance may be gotten hastily at the beginning; but the end thereof shall not be blessed.

This verse is basically saying that when things are attained quickly or easily we must be careful with them.  It is easy to fall into the trap of thinking all is well and forever when in fact it is not.  This verse could be translated: easy come, easy go.

22 Say not thou, I will recompense evil; but wait on the LORD, and he shall save thee.

This is saying, don’t think to yourself or say to yourself, “I will repay evil for the evil done to me.”  There is never an excuse to do evil, simply put.  If you find yourself in a situation that causes your desires to be bent toward getting even or saying something that has some sting to it, think again.  Remember too, if there is cause for us to consider doing evil maybe we should not even be there.

23 Divers weights are an abomination unto the LORD; and a false balance is not good.

Here it is again, repeated.  That means it is important.  Remember verse 10.

24 Man's goings are of the LORD; how can a man then understand his own way?

This is not to be confused with Pr 21:2 “Every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the LORD pondereth the hearts.  We are always being taken or directed down various paths.  The paths we take are decisions we are allowed to make.  Each crossroad has choices, there is a good path and several wrong ones.  The LORD knows what we need and how we need to get to the place He wants us.  It seems tough sometimes but then again, lessons are learned by learning our lessons and learning a lesson can be tough.

25 It is a snare to the man who devoureth that which is holy, and after vows to make enquiry.

The word “snare” means bait or some kind of lure and comes from the Hebrew root meaning enticement ending in entrapment.  The word “devoureth” is only used once in the entire Bible.  It is a Hebrew root word having the connotation of swallowing down but interestingly it also means to speak rashly or talk wildly. 

Once we make a vow, keep it according to the intentions.  Do not ask questions like, “did you mean this or did you mean that” after the vow.  Sometimes we do this with God when we promise to flee from sin.  We start questioning things.

26 A wise king scattereth the wicked, and bringeth the wheel over them.

The wicked are worse when they are all together.  Another thing, it only takes a few to make a lot of noise.  The wise king will separate them and deal with them individually.  In this example, the next time the wicked see each other is while fastened to a grain wheel as punishment.

27 The spirit of man is the candle of the LORD, searching all the inward parts of the belly.

Something that has always amazed me is the fact that people that I thought might not know me as a Christian knew I was.  This serves as a stark reality when considering that all onlookers will have the amount of sight into our lives as God allows them to have.  Look at the warning Christ gave the Pharisees in Luke 11:39, “And the Lord said unto him, Now do ye Pharisees make clean the outside of the cup and the platter; but your inward part is full of ravening and wickedness.  Our spirit is given off even when we are oblivious.  The word “spirit” is the very same word used in Gen 2:7, “And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.  It is the very life given to us by God himself.  This verse could then be “The very life of man is a light of the LORD.”

28 Mercy and truth preserve the king: and his throne is upholden by mercy.

The reason “mercy” and “truth” preserve the king is because when the combination of those two key character traits exist, they protect the king or anyone else having them.  The word “preserve” in the Hebrew means protect.

29 The glory of young men is their strength: and the beauty of old men is the gray head.

Young and old have their advantages.  The young are agile and ready for any physical action necessary where as the old are ready for counsel.  The young need to be careful not to mock or ridicule the older folks nor should they get caught up in the pride of their physical strength and appearance.  The older generation must be careful not to discount the young for their seeming foolish.

30 The blueness of a wound cleanseth away evil: so do stripes the inward parts of the belly.

Wow, the blueness of a wound is serious.  A bruise is the result of being hit to the point of doing serious damage to the layer of tissue just under the skin.  The point that is being made here is that it takes pain and some damage to remove evil.  In today’s society our means of removing evil is first to excuse the evil or dignify it by making it a statutory privilege.  Again the jest here is evil exist and to get rid of it takes cleansing and the cleansing may be painful.